A New Beginning

Crying or Fussing

Getting to Know Your Baby

TEMPERAMENT Some babies are quiet by nature — they can remain still and content for a long time. They tend to move in a smooth and relaxed style. Other babies are more active and seem to be in constant motion. They’re excited and interested in looking around. These babies will be harder to settle, but swaddling and physical contact may help them calm down. Crying helps your baby release tension and shut out any sights, sounds, or sensations that may be overwhelming. Respond quickly to your newborn baby when they cry. When you consistently respond to your baby, they feel safe and secure. It also teaches them to trust you’ll be there to care for them. Do your best to meet the needs of your baby.

CRYING Since babies have no formal language skills, they will cry to communicate their needs. Crying can communicate any of the following: • I’m hungry • I’m uncomfortable • I’m cold • I’m in pain

• I need attention • I’m feeling fussy • I’m overstimulated

WAYS TO SOOTHE A FUSSY BABY • Rock them • Take them for a stroller or car ride • Play soft music • Gently sway them

WHEN YOUR BABY IS CRYING, HERE ARE THE QUESTIONS TO ASK:

Gently settle your baby and feed them. Sucking on a finger, thumb, or breast may help.

Is my baby hungry or wants to suck?

Change diaper—some babies fuss when they are about to soil their diaper or when it needs to be changed.

Do I need to change the diaper?

Try gentle pats to the back, rocking, or walking. Make a “shush” sound in your baby’s ear over and over.

Does my baby want to be held?

Add a layer of clothing — babies need 1 more layer than adults. Remove a layer of clothing — your baby might also be hot.

Is my baby cold or hot?

Go outside — a change of scenery can be distracting. Give them a massage — the stroking can be soothing.

Is my baby lonely?

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Chapter 7: Getting to Know Your Baby